How quickly you shut down or disengage when not actively stimulated. Your threshold for idle before you check out.
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sliderAuto-Lock — If you lose focus or motivation the moment external pressure drops, build in regular challenges to stay engaged before you check out completely.
Auto-Lock is how quickly you disengage when nothing is actively demanding your attention. Joey Shama discovered that his auto-lock threshold was extremely low — within hours of having nothing to do, he had fully checked out in a way that alarmed him. The House of Cards morning showed him that he needed external engagement and challenge to stay on. Pure rest didn't maintain his system; it shut it down.
Joey Shama is recounting the House of Cards morning — the moment he discovered that full retirement had not activated rest but instead triggered an alarming shutdown that he couldn't ignore.
"we have my father and i officially left e f in december 2015 and i vividly recall one morning when my kids got up to go..."
Auto-Lock — Practice sitting with emptiness instead of immediately filling it with the next task.
Auto-Lock is how quickly you shut down when not actively stimulated. Amanda Burrell had spent her entire life unable to sit still, constantly seeking the next achievement or challenge. When the Navy accidentally left her in the ocean with nowhere to go and nothing to achieve, she was forced into complete stillness. Instead of shutting down or checking out, she discovered that when external stimulation was removed, she could access an inner peace she never knew existed.
Auto-Lock shows how Mandy's relationship with stillness completely transformed. Before the attack, she had her Auto-Lock set to Quick Reset - the moment she wasn't actively stimulated or busy, she would immediately disengage and find something else to do. She described always needing 'the next thing to keep me going' and feeling unsettled whenever she was alone. The shooting forced her into a moment of complete stillness, staring at concrete, unable to move or act. This traumatic pause eventually taught her that she could tolerate - even need - moments of not doing anything.
Auto-Lock helped Claire discover her true strength in endurance activities. Set to Quick Reset, she'd always given up quickly in sports when she couldn't keep up with faster kids. But during the swim-a-thon, she adjusted to Slow to Pause – she just kept going lap after lap, even when tired, even when she was the only one left. This setting revealed that persistence, not speed, was her superpower.