Your ability to return to a previous version of yourself — recovering lessons, habits, or strengths you once had.
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commandRestore — Use a sensory trigger to reconnect with a version of yourself that operated with more freedom or confidence.
Restore is about returning to a previous version of yourself — recovering something you once had. Maria Paz Gutierrez had been a solo traveler, someone who moved freely through Latin America without hesitation. Over time, that version of her quietly went offline. The song triggered a restoration moment — not a decision, but a sudden re-access of who she used to be and what she used to know about herself and the world. After the chills, she said plainly: 'Just go.'
Maria Paz describes the flood of memories and reconnection with a former self that the goosebumps triggered — a version of herself who moved freely and fearlessly through Latin America.
"i think in that moment i was thinking about a trip that i took to chile and it reminded me of this day where i was i thi..."
Restore — Recall a version of yourself that survived something hard before, and let that version lead you through the next stretch.
Restore is the ability to return to a previous version of yourself — recovering strengths or habits you once had. Alex Hai had called himself a warrior years earlier, in the 2017 interview. That identity didn't disappear — it went quiet. What got him out of the Berlin depression was hearing that voice again, the same one that had fought gondoliers, lawyers, and city hall for decades. He restored access to that part of himself and used it to start moving, start creating, and eventually start building again in a city he'd once written off entirely.
Alex describes hearing the warrior voice from years earlier knock again from inside the depression — restoring access to the version of himself that had fought gondoliers and lawyers for decades.
"if you remember the last time we talked i said that i am a warrior and that whatever happens i'm gonna fight back and so..."
Restore — When a role no longer fits who you are, ask which version of yourself you need to return to — and what's currently blocking that.
Restore is about recovering a previous version of yourself — habits, strengths, or ways of being that you once had. John Mackey built his career by following joy, creativity, and play. By staying in a role where none of those things were present, he had drifted away from that version of himself. Leaving Whole Foods and starting Love Life was a restore — returning to the mode of building something new from a place of genuine excitement rather than obligation.
John Mackey explains why leaving Whole Foods was ultimately a return to himself — the joy and creativity that had defined his entire career had gone silent, and leaving was the way to get them back.
"i wasn't happy anymore at whole foods i was fighting with amazon some and i wasn't being creative anymore the game the p..."
Restore — Return to earlier versions of yourself that weren't yet damaged by unhealthy relationship patterns.
Restore activated when Jonathan Kohler returned to a previous version of himself - the part that could love his mother Susie Miller without needing to fix her. In the nursing home, he accessed the simple, unconditional love he'd had as a young child before it became twisted by responsibility and performance. He restored his ability to just be her son, not her therapist or savior, and found the grace that had been buried under years of obligation.
Restore — Access previous versions of yourself that had different emotional capacities than your current wounded state.
Restore helped Miles Chamley Watson return to a version of himself that could love and forgive, before the anger and resentment took over. Rather than staying stuck in the wounded child identity, he accessed his natural capacity for compassion and connection. The phone call restored a relationship possibility that had been completely shut down for ten years.
Restore — Access previous versions of your confidence when current setbacks threaten your self-belief.
Restore helped Miles Chamley Watson return to his competitive mindset after the devastating Olympic loss. Rather than staying broken by the defeat, he accessed his previous confidence and determination. Kobe's advice allowed him to restore his belief in his abilities and approach the next season with renewed focus.
Restore — Return to who you were before a relationship got damaged by choosing openness over protection.
Restore is your ability to return to a previous version of yourself. Jeffrey Hollander had lost the collaborative, open relationship he once had with Alan Newman after their business split. During their podcast conversation, Jeffrey intentionally returned to his earlier mindset of partnership and mutual respect, choosing to approach Alan with the same openness they had when they first started Seventh Generation together. He restored his capacity for vulnerability and growth that had been buried under years of unresolved conflict.
Restore — Return to lessons and strengths from earlier versions of yourself when current approaches aren't working.
Restore activated when Antoinette Marie Williams accessed the competitive lessons her father Henry had taught her decades earlier. When she heard his voice saying 'play every game like it's your first,' she was returning to a previous version of herself - the fierce competitor he had trained. She recovered that fighting spirit she once had.
Restore — Return to focusing on what someone gave you rather than what they failed to provide.
Restore activated for Michael Mason when he chose to return to seeing his father through the lens of gratitude rather than resentment. He restored focus to the positive lessons his father had taught him - work ethic, survival skills, toughness - rather than staying stuck on the trauma. This wasn't denial of the abuse, but a conscious choice to recover the valuable parts of their relationship that hatred had buried.
Restore — Return to meaningful rituals and sensory experiences that connected you to what you've lost.
Restore allowed Nikesh Shukla to return to a previous version of himself connected to his mother's kitchen. When he found her frozen food and smelled the familiar spices, he accessed memories and feelings from before her death. Even after completely botching the cooking attempt, he was able to restore that connection through the essential scents and rituals, recovering the feeling of home he thought he'd lost forever.
Restore — Look for the core parts of yourself that existed before the disruption and find new ways to express them.
Restore applies to Scott Martin's journey back to coaching and finding his core thread again. After years of being lost in depression and identity confusion, Scott eventually found his way back to his fundamental mission of helping others learn and grow. Working with the underestimated youth soccer team allowed him to restore his sense of purpose and the part of himself that had always wanted to help others prove themselves wrong.
Restore — Draw on examples from people who showed you how to handle difficult situations with dignity and strength.
Restore captures Nimesha Ladhva's ability to return to her father's example of quiet courage when facing hatred. As an adult at the beach, when confronted with racism directed at young Muslim girls and potentially her own family, she restored the protective strength her father had shown with the skinheads. She called on the same gentle but unwavering resolve he had demonstrated years earlier.
Restore — Restore your sense of worth by recognizing past survival behaviors as evidence of wisdom, not weakness.
Restore reflects the Indigenous woman's ability to recover her sense of self-worth and dignity that had been damaged by the residential school trauma. By recognizing that forgetting her language and not fighting back were survival responses rather than personal failures, she could restore her understanding of herself as someone who had wisdom and strength, even as a five-year-old child facing impossible circumstances.
Restore — Look for the qualities of people you've lost in the family members and communities that knew them before you did.
Restore allowed Eric Yu to recover pieces of his father that he thought were lost forever. Through his cousins and extended family in China, he accessed memories, stories, and qualities of his dad that existed before Eric was born. He restored not just information about his father, but a sense of connection to family traits and characteristics he carried himself.
Restore represents Kerry Washington returning to a more authentic version of herself through the abortion scene. She had lost connection to her own truth due to shame and secrecy, but the scene helped her recover that authentic self who could acknowledge her experiences without hiding.
Restore reflects Ryan Gosling's ability to return to and recover the magical energy he experienced during his uncle's Elvis phase. Rather than losing that transformative experience when his uncle stopped performing, Gosling found ways to restore that same feeling through his own music and eventually acting. He actively worked to get back to that heightened state of creativity and community connection that his uncle had demonstrated.
Restore allows you to return to a previous version of yourself and recover lessons, habits, or strengths you once had. Alex Hine decided to look for football Mickey, symbolically returning to something he'd rejected in childhood but now could approach with new understanding. He was restoring his ability to see love even in imperfect packages, recovering a connection to his grandfather that he thought was lost.
Restore allowed this mother to return to an earlier version of her relationship with her daughter - not the version from before all the trauma, but one where they could communicate and care for each other. Through their recent conversations, she restored the ability to see Brittany as her daughter rather than just the person who nearly killed her. She recovered the capacity to hold both love and hurt simultaneously.
Restore allowed Elizabeth Banks to return to her core desire to be a mother after fertility struggles had layered on shame, self-blame, and societal pressure. She had to strip away all the external expectations about how motherhood "should" happen and restore her original, simple goal: having a child to love and raise. The process involved going back to who she was before infertility made her feel broken - someone who wanted to build a family with her husband, regardless of the specific method.
Restore captures how Hilary Duff recovered a sense of joy and ownership that she once had in her early career. Rather than starting completely fresh, she restored her connection to the person who originally created and performed those songs. She found a way back to the confidence and excitement she had felt before years of industry pressure and self-doubt had dimmed that light.