Privacy

How much of yourself you reveal to the people already in your life. Controls what you share, how deep you go, and what stays yours.

Benny Blanco and Ed Sheeran Writing Love Yourself

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Privacy controls how much of yourself you reveal to people. Ed Sheeran had his privacy dialed all the way up on the breakup — he explicitly said he didn't want to write about it because it would give the other person satisfaction, a sign he was trying to keep his real feelings completely sealed. Benny Blanco found a creative workaround: write a song about not wanting to write the song. That reframe gave Ed permission to lower his privacy setting just enough to let the truth out.