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Privacy controls what you reveal to the people already in your life and what stays yours. Betty kept the pain of years of abuse completely private — not just from strangers, but from everyone around her. Her granddaughter Sarah Smarsh said she almost never saw her crack, and that showing vulnerability was 'totally taboo.' The one crack in that privacy happened not through conversation, but through music. Dolly's 'Coat of Many Colors' was the only space where Betty's guard came down, even partially.