High fit

Time Zone is the ability to meet people in their time, not just yours. Lucy Kalanithi made a deliberate choice not to push Katie toward Paul on Lucy's schedule. She put the books around the house. She answered questions when asked. She made a video album when Katie requested it. She said explicitly: 'I don't know when she's going to pick it up. I don't know what she's going to take.' She stayed in Katie's time zone rather than her own need to transmit Paul's story.