Sync

How well your inner world matches your outer world. The alignment between what you feel, say, and do.

Aly Raisman and Learning to Set Boundaries While Dating

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Sync is about how well your inner world matches your outer world — whether what you feel, say, and do line up. Aly Raisman spent years completely out of sync in relationships: feeling uncomfortable inside while performing okay on the outside, feeling mistreated but staying and saying nothing. The shift she describes is getting herself into sync — where what she wants, what she says, and how she behaves in a relationship all start to match each other.