High fit

Volume is about how strongly you project your thoughts and emotions into the world. The listener had communicated her need to live together before getting engaged — she turned the volume up on that. But when the proposal happened, the excitement of the moment turned the volume back down on that boundary, and she said yes without voicing her hesitation in real time. The task now is to turn the volume back up — to say clearly, calmly, and directly what she still needs.