High fit

Parental Controls is about deciding who you want to be instead of defaulting to the version shaped by how you were raised. Harry Jowsey's therapist helped him trace his attraction to chaos directly back to his parents' volatile relationship. For years he had been running on the defaults installed by that environment. Going into Let's Marry Harry, he was consciously trying to override those defaults and choose something different — a calmer, more secure kind of connection.