High fit

Update is about being willing to install a new way of thinking when the old version no longer holds. Jai Young Fan carried a firm interpretation of her mother's behavior for decades — that saying 'no' to the police officer was a social failure, a misreading of the script. Years after her mother's death, she updated that interpretation completely, recognizing the same look on children's faces at a playground and understanding that her mother had actually done something real and honest in that moment.