Parental Controls
Whether you give yourself the option to choose who you are, instead of just defaulting to how you were raised.
Monique Van Reinen and the Penalty Kick
Parental Controls is about whether you let someone else's instructions about who you should be keep running your behavior. Monique Van Reinen spent months running on her coach's settings — committing fouls she didn't believe in, trying to become a player she wasn't. The penalty kick was her switching off that external override and making her own call about who she was as a player.