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Radical Acceptance means accepting reality as it is without fighting it. When her ex said 'I made you a woman' during their breakup, Allie Michalka responded casually like 'whatever, who cares? I lost my virginity to you, it's not that big of a deal.' She stopped fighting against his attempts to make their past more significant than it was to her. Allie accepted that their relationship had happened but refused to let his emotional investment control her current decisions about moving forward.