High fit

Update is about the willingness to install new ways of thinking even when the current version feels comfortable. Alex Cooper came into her pregnancy with a birth plan that felt like hers — she'd formed an opinion and attached to it. After working with her doula and gaining real information about what childbirth involves, she let that plan change. She didn't resist the update; she called it a blessing. Her willingness to swap a fixed idea for a better-informed one is exactly what this setting describes.