High fit

Update is the willingness to evolve and install new ways of thinking — even when the current version feels comfortable. The young Ben Affleck was running an outdated version of himself that treated honesty as always good and consequences as someone else's problem. The older Ben Affleck had fully updated that operating logic — he now sees that candor without consequence-awareness isn't a feature, it's a bug. The comparison to his own son is the clearest signal that the update fully installed.